Herbert was talking to us before lunch about relationship, marriage.
Well, he seems like a father to me.
Friendly, teaching me alot, both work and life.

This time, he talked about NOT giving freedom to guys!
Being a guy himself, he say that. Hard to believe huh. Well, some facts he said is true enough.

It is hard for a guy to listen to a woman. This is due to pride and ego. And it is natural that a guy will listen to a woman when it comes to courtship, but how about after marriage? Only till then he still listens to her, he's a guy worthwhile. Because not all guys can do this.

Man is naturally born to be someone with pride and ego while a lady, to be the "maid" of his. Not in the context where she act as a slave, but as someone who is supportive whenever a guy fall. Usually, while taking into consideration of his pride as a man, he will not show that he's weak and useless, but deep inside, they do actually have a feminine heart where all they want and need is just someone to love, care and take care of.

Imagine, when a wife quarrels with her husband and never understands. Then, this lady from the office comforted him, how will he feel? Yes, we always think that this will only happen in TV drama, bullshit cos you trust your man so much. But come to think of it, isn't it true. How long can a guy preserver? Remember, they are weak in this part. When someone so close, his wife, cant even understand and support him, who else can he turn to?

Woman are born to be more emotional both mentally and phyically while guys only keep it in their heart waiting for someone to share with. So girls, NEVER expect guys to understand how you feel, cos they will never understand, for most cases.

A relationship and marriage can only last when two become one. When one another compromises, share likings and work hard together. And the purpose of getting married is not just to bond and commit. But to want a family together as one.

Well, it's inspiring and i took another few seconds minutes to think deep into it.
To be serious, i just felt that im a changed person, dont ask me what, cos i dont know either.
I just wanna thank that special someone who came into my life and bring so much joy and laughter. I bet you're the one who changed me.

Verdict is out.
We felt it was still okay.
But there will be more to come and we're ready, in a way.

Happy 100 days to my Dearest.Baby.
We've been through alot in this 100 days that no one can understand.
What i can say is, i get to know you even more.
Thanks for all the tolerance, care and love you showered me with.
I did that too OKAY! Haha!
And I'm glad you're still here.

Because you're who you are,
that make me cant even get angry with you anymore.
SOMETIMES!

And i bet this SillyAss will see my blog today.
Here im telling you!
I've been updating my blog, it's you who never view.
Last but not least, it's late when you see this, so GO SLEEP NOW! :)

It's about how guys and girls think.
Been browsing the net to gather information and saw this in a blog.

Quoted

"I am not insinuating that to have guy friends means you will cheat necessarily. Of course it depends on the girl. However, girls with guy friends, for the most part, are sexually promiscuous or liberal. Not all the time, but for the general part, that is the trend. They like the attention from the guys they get. And girls who think guys are just their friends do not know guys.(Is it true???)"


"Men and women are different. As such the thing that binds them is attraction. Guys and girls cannot, ever, EVER be friends, without their being some ulterior motive. The girl might not know, and truly believe the guy is her friend, but the guy, being a guy, thinks differently. Men and women think differently, is my point. A girl may assure her boyfriend that "he's just a friend", but the boyfriend knows better, because he is a guy, and knows how men think. There are exceptions to the rule. Men and women can be friends, if there is absolutely no sexual attraction, or the guy is a clueless nerd, or gay. Otherwise, most guys will be friends with you until the point where they realize they cannot get some, or that you get a boyfriend. Then they will disappear and not be as close to you."


"I am not talking about acquaintances, but friends. Friends who you spend alot of time with. You go out together, share things together, spend time together. And I am saying that guys and girls cannot be friends aside from those minor exceptions, and that no guy should ever date a girl who has nothing but guy friends, or a guy best friend, or any such thing. The same applies to the man of course. He should not have any friends that are girls that he spends time with, or shares anything with. That is the whole purpose of why you have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Otherwise, you shouldn't ever be in a relationship with a boyfriend, if you have all those guyfriends which you want to keep on your keychain.(uh huh) "

"My baby thinks i'm too sensitive but then maybeshe sld know before she fall for me..."

Seriously, it strikes me.
I hope KenBaby will see this. Because I just want him to know.
Now, I truly feel you.

I would never want this to happen one day.
For I Love You.
:)

Tomorrow will be another day i'm worried about.
I seriously hope everything will be fine.
I see him changed, almost to a totally different person.
I'm glad but at the same time worry.
Hoping nothing serious is behind the scene.
Bro, I'm seriously proud of you now. =)
I Love You.